How to get over a broken heart?
My ex and I have had a very passionate, but rocky relationship from the word go. He was always very suspicious of me, he broke up with me first because he read mesages on my fone from another boy, who was just a friend. Then he came crawling back, and I took him back. Then I was jelous because this girl he had met recentely in a club kept texting him. He said that they were only friends, and i believe tis to be true. They were only texting each other because they happened to be from the same town in brazil, and that was rare to find over here in Ireland. But then he got really mad at me for being jelous and broke up with me. I was heart broken , because I really loved him, but then..... yet again, he came crawling back... and I , like a complete idiot, went back to him. Then on a drunken night out, I told him that I was bisexual. The next day he broke up with me, saying that he couldnt handle that and that i was too crazy for him and he didn't trust me. So then I thought.... thats it... I have to move on with my life. So I went out with this guy, who was actually a friend of a friend of my ex. But me and my ex were still friends, and I thought it was fine like that, I was happy to have him as a friend. Onday I went over to his house to colect my laptop, because i had left it there. He walked me to my car , and he says, "do you love me?" then i told him , i dont know, i dont want to talk about this now etc.... Because even though I did, I didnt want to just let him back into my life straight away. Then he jsut went crazy and said he never wanted to see me again, and he smashed my laptop onto the road. He had obviously found out about the other guy. I know this all sounds crazy.. and any sane person would want to the the hell out of there, but the truth is I am still hoplessly in love with him. Ever since that happened, I cant sleep , i cant eat, I have'nt been able to go into work.... I just feel sick. I know its crazy, but i just want him back so badly!!!! I know that im only 20, and everyone will tell me that I will meet another guy etc... but I really dont want to, i just want him.... i love him so much.... and i dont know what to do to get over this feeling of heartbreak!!1 Please, anyone who has been heart broken before give me some advice!!! thank you! xxx
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Answer 1 :
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Answer 2 :
buy some tums, it will help your heart feel better. If you can't stop thinking of him... smoke some sh*t.
Answer 3 :
You get over someone by getting under their closest family member.
Answer 4 :
I've felt the same way. Can't sleep, eat, that pit in your stomach when you think about them? There's no over the counter for a broken heart, sadly. Time will heal most heartaches. i can't give you a tmeline or anything. It's not a science. I'm just getting over a girl after about 6 months. We never even dated, i just had always liked her, and i told her, she continued to lead me on, then told me she wasn't ready for anything, but she valued me as a friend (but then didn't talk to me for nearly a month after wards). I had to take things out of my life that reminded me of her. For instance, i had this picture of the two of us by my bed and i just put it away. I didn't burn in or anything rash, i just hurt every time i saw her, so i removed the unneeded pain. I mean, you'll still think of them, but after a while, it'll get easier. I promise. P.s-I agree with you friends. You'll find someone else. Someone better. You deserve better. Hope that helps, somewhat. Sorry. Alfred Lord Tennyson once said, "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." Think about it.
Answer 5 :
time heals all wounds
Answer 6 :
It's nice to have a broken heart every now and then, it means that you have feelings, that you're a human, that you taste life as it is - bitter sweet! I think that time is the best doctor, most probably this story isn't over yet, but maybe it will be over someday, life goes on... P.S. I think that bisexual girls are very hot!
Answer 7 :
I'm sort of going through a similar thing. I'm 20 as well, and dated my ex for 9 months, fell totally head over heels in love with him - he ended it a total of 5 times, and has so far only stuck to the last one. It's been 10 weeks since we broke up, and counting - and it still hurts so badly! I miss him, I miss who I was with him, I miss his family....all of it! It has got easier over the last few months, you begin to function a little more each day. So far, I've found that things like seeing friends, and talking, crying, watching movies, going out, meeting new people all to be helpful. I even saw a psychic, sounds a bit lame, but it helped! I also deleted my ex from facebook, my phone, everything from my room - and I think that's helping too. You'll get through it :) we both will :)
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