what do you think of this guy and our relationship?
My ex and I have had a very passionate, but rocky relationship from the word go. He was always very suspicious of me, he broke up with me first because he read mesages on my fone from another boy, who was just a friend. Then he came crawling back, and I took him back. Then I was jelous because this girl he had met recentely in a club kept texting him. He said that they were only friends, and i believe tis to be true. They were only texting each other because they happened to be from the same town in brazil, and that was rare to find over here in Ireland. But then he got really mad at me for being jelous and broke up with me. I was heart broken , because I really loved him, but then..... yet again, he came crawling back... and I , like a complete idiot, went back to him. Then on a drunken night out, I told him that I was bisexual. The next day he broke up with me, saying that he couldnt handle that and that i was too crazy for him and he didn't trust me. So then I thought.... thats it... I have to move on with my life. So I went out with this guy, who was actually a friend of a friend of my ex. But me and my ex were still friends, and I thought it was fine like that, I was happy to have him as a friend. Onday I went over to his house to colect my laptop, because i had left it there. He walked me to my car , and he says, "do you love me?" then i told him , i dont know, i dont want to talk about this now etc.... Because even though I did, I didnt want to just let him back into my life straight away. Then he jsut went crazy and said he never wanted to see me again, and he smashed my laptop onto the road. He had obviously found out about the other guy. I know this all sounds crazy.. and any sane person would want to the the hell out of there, but the truth is I am still hoplessly in love with him. Ever since that happened, I cant sleep , i cant eat, I have'nt been able to go into work.... I just feel sick. I know its crazy, but i just want him back so badly!!!! I know that im only 20, and everyone will tell me that I will meet another guy etc... but I really dont want to, i just want him.... i love him so much.... and i dont know what to do to get over this feeling of heartbreak!!1 Please, anyone who has been heart broken before give me some advice!!! thank you! xxx
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Answer 1 :
This guy has self confidence issues. Serious self confidence issues. If your willing to deal with that then by all means go back to him. If not then, I'm sorry, but you need to stay away from him. Even if he comes crawling back to you. I know it'll be terribly difficult but nobody said love, or life, is easy. To get him back is simple enough. If your still dating the friend of a friend then dump him and make sure your ex knows that its over. If he still is who he was when he came crawling back to you before (which I think he is) then he'll come crawling back sooner or later. If you don't want to wait or it doesn't seem like he is this time then tell him that you still love him. You just replied that you don't know because you're sick of the roller coaster relationship you've had and you didn't know if you could handle it but you've decided that you want to work on it with him...if he's willing. Good luck
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